CCEF is a great resource all around. Parents of young kids will hopefully find these few principles helpful.
Archive for September, 2010
Honestly, there’s not much I like about Halloween and never has been (except Almond Joy). I used to rebel as a kid when it was time to head to fall festivals dressed up as Bible characters. I would go dressed like a tennis player (so I could serve in the King’s court) or a bandit (thief in the night) trying to avoid wearing another shepherd-still-in-his-bathrobe scene that the church was already full of.
As an adult, I have tried to avoid the whole scene too, even before kids. Christie and I have sat in the dark and ignored the knocking before, and that was probably wrong on our part. We were wasting Halloween.
The last few years, I see how I’ve been wasting it. This article I read yesterday was very helpful:
Living with missional intentionality means that you approach life as a missionary in your context.
We should creatively engage our neighbors with the Gospel. This is a great way to get started (read those last three words again).
Read the article here: Why All Good Christians Should Celebrate Halloween
And this is the same tone, Halloween – Trick or Retreat?
The first link requires an HT to Tim Challies, and he authored the second article (2007).
The idea of sacrifice has come up recently in SS and in my cousin’s blog. I’ve been musing about it, whether God requires it, whether it must be a constant state of mind, whether it exists at all (yes, it obviously does). For the last decade, the first thing I’ve thought of when I hear the word is the end of David Livingstone’s lecture at Cambridge where he said,
For my own part, I have never ceased to rejoice that God has appointed me to such an office. People talk of the sacrifice I have made in spending so much of my life in Africa. Can that be called a sacrifice which is simply paid back as a small part of a great debt owing to our God, which we can never repay?-Is that a sacrifice which brings its own blest reward in healthful activity, the consciousness of doing good, peace of mind, and a bright hope of a glorious destiny hereafter?-Away with the word in such a view, and with such a thought! It is emphatically no sacrifice. Say rather it is a privilege. Anxiety, sickness, suffering, or danger, now and then, with a foregoing of the common conveniences and charities of this life, may make us pause, and cause the spirit to waver, and the soul to sink, but let this only be for a moment. All these are nothing when compared with the glory which shall hereafter be revealed in, and for, us. I never made a sacrifice. Of this we ought not to talk, when we remember the great sacrifice which HE made who left His Father’s throne on high to give Himself for us.
Douglas Wilson says you should if if you use it like most people do.
A boy raised on great literature is more likely to grow up to think, to speak, and to write like a civilized man.
Tom Spence wrote a great editorial for last Friday’s Wall Street Journal, “How to Raise Boys Who Read.” It’s worth the read if you know any kids. Boys are way behind girls on reading habits, and I don’t know that I would even be satisfied with girls’ reading habits.
The publishing companies have started throwing the paper version of “shock and awe” at our boys with unconscionably, base content. Instead of trying to sell books by the true, good and beautiful path; they are following the private-things-made-open route. Proverbs says that, “Folly is joy to him that is destitute of wisdom; but a man of understanding walks uprightly.”
One obvious problem with the SweetFarts philosophy of education [read the linked article for more info] is that it is more suited to producing a generation of barbarians and morons than to raising the sort of men who make good husbands, fathers and professionals. If you keep meeting a boy where he is, he doesn’t go very far.
The little boy in this picture belongs to me. He would love these base books. He and his other three brothers could sit and laugh and scorn and chortle with them all day long. It would make him very happy.
But if I have received a commission to parent him, if I am going to be held accountable for how I do it, if I believe Proverbs, if all this important speak in Scripture is true that children are a heritage unto the Lord, then I must not allow him to revel in these things or allow them to shape his thinking. I must not let him to be saturated in it, because he would be all-in, and the desire for perverseness would roll bigger and bigger.
There is so much truth, goodness and beauty to revel in. There are so many heroic stories he must learn, so many brave hearts that he must meet, so many honors that must captivate his mind. I must put the best before him.
Sweet Farts is admittedly getting too much attention here, even in this post. It’s on the cusp. But there are plenty of other low-level books our culture is reading and loving.
(Now go read the article at the link above.)